2015-10-13 stories from the north, thanks James Milne!

Two TNKR Ambassadors spoke at a university in Seoul yesterday. It was a special occasion, for many reasons:

  • The event was organized by TNKR volunteer James Maxwell Milne. He organized it, raised money for it with a gofundme page, and also made a personal donation. In the future I will suggest this model to volunteers who want to organize speaking events for TNKR members.
  • Speakers Cherie Yang and Sharon Jang were wonderful! They both entered TNKR this year without public speaking experience. Cherie joined the program in January then gave her first speeches in February–in a speaking tour across the USA! Sharon joined in March–then her first speech was at the British embassy that was recorded by Al Jazeera. They are both getting better at presenting their stories.
  • The audience was engaged. Korean college students are known for sitting on their hands during Q&A. But yesterday they were asking many questions, in both English and Korean. A couple of the ladies in the audience were crying as they listened to Cherie and Sharon.
  • I even got a strong response from the audience. Korean college students are also known for only volunteering when they have no choice. But yesterday several students told me that they would like to join TNKR. I challenged them to gather together as a group so we could have a planning session to make it happen. I often make the point to NK NGO leaders and activists that instead of blaming Koreans for not getting involved, we may need to change our strategy to attract people.
  • TNKR tutor and coach Peter Daley joined us, yet again. He is now becoming a regular at our events!
  • I was so busy yesterday that I wasn’t checking my messages. 430 Kakao, 80 Facebook plus many emails. So today I need to follow up on many things…
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2015-10-13 TNKR class visit: Aishling & Cherie

Yesterday was another busy day! In-house tutoring in the morning, interview with “Ask Ajumma,” speech, dinner, then I joined a class taught by Aishling.

I love going to these study sessions. One great thing about Aishling is that she is a focused and creative tutor. She didn’t  just go by the book in helping Cherie with her next assignment, she  also presented original ideas.

They met at 9 pm last night. It is another reminder of how great TNKR is! We have classes going on all around the city every day, in this case I joined classes from 10 am to 1 pm, then from 9 to 10 pm. So many volunteers give up so much of their time to North Korean refugees.

Aishling and Cherie clearly have hit it off, laughing and joking together, but it is within the focus of teaching and learning.

A great thing about Cherie is that she is coachable and eager to learn. She listens to what she is taught, she doesn’t pretend to understand when she doesn’t, she asks questions, and she keeps the class fun because of her delightful personality.

I’m not sure how happy they were about me joining, because they knew if meant one thing: Photos!

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2015-10-13 Ask Ajumma!

According to their Facebook page: “Ask Ajumma is a virtual concierge service that can help you get the things you want in Korea. We can help save time, money and get the quality you want.

I bumped into them this morning, they did a quick interview.

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2015-10-12 New problem in TNKR!

Sometimes I avoid discussing challenges within TNKR because

  • Many people don’t read carefully
  • Many people who don’t read carefully will present one small challenge as being representative of the entire program.

One funny problem that has popped up:

1–A tutor doesn’t want to let her student go. We set up the in-house tutoring program so that tutors would get refugee learners on our waiting list prepared for studying in the regular matching program. It has gone very well. Some refugees have had their ears “opened” by studying with native and fluent English speakers. Others have expressed that they now feel confident to join the session after spending time 1 on 1 practicing English.

But the tutor now wants to adopt one of her students. The tutor traveled abroad, her student is planning on studying abroad. She sees her as going through some of the same challenges she went through, and wants to help guide her. So the tutor doesn’t want to let the student go, as she agreed when she started the program.

During orientation sessions with in-house tutors, I told them that they are like boot camp instructors, that they need to get the refugees ready for the next phase. But after a month of these sessions, I am now saying they must be like kindergarten or preschool teachers. Teach the basics, but let their babies go to the next teacher/class/level…

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2015-10-11 Fun, exciting and productive meeting!

Anyone who has ever worked with me knows how much I hate regularly scheduled meetings. I like it when meetings are held because they need to be held, not because it is time to meet. When I realize I am working with someone who loves meetings, then I immediately start being hostile to that person, so he or she will start holding meetings without telling me. Then we can both be happy!!!
 
But earlier today. Eunkoo and I participated in two meetings, including one secret one I can’t talk about. Then the second meeting we had was so good! We talked about so many things, but also it was talk that will lead to action.
 
Of course, it is easier to enjoy meetings when the owner (Aeran Lee) treats you to fantastic food! If that happened at work, I might even be able to endure long staff meetings!

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2015-10-10 TNKR Open House

We had a great Open House earlier today with tutors who are interested in non-teaching opportunities with Teach North Korean Refugees. I think I have a better idea how to run these sessions. The key thing will be following up on all of the wonderful things we discussed today.

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2015-10-09 Holiday in Korea?

Didn’t we just have a holiday? A week or so ago, Korea shut down because of Chuseok. Much to my surprise last night, I found out today is a holiday. I had already set up a few meetings for today (but one no-show).

  • TNKR co-director came in the office today.  She brought our new banner designed by TNKR graphic designer Kiyun Sung.
  • The Bitcoin folks came in to the office today also, I guess they also did not get the national holiday memo. Before they got started, we talked about  North Korea and also about changes in South Korea  over the last 20 years.

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2015-10-09 TNKR tutor flies from Jeju to Seoul

Today is a holiday in Korea, but that didn’t mean that studying in Teach North Korean Refugees (TNKR) had a day off.  TNKR co-directors Eunkoo Lee and Casey Lartigue joined a class by the tutor in TNKR who has won the “Came the Longest Distance” award. Afsha  flew from Jeju Island to Seoul to tutor one of the learners in TNKR.

The only way anyone will be able to top her will be if the person flies from a different country!

Her student today has been in our program for several months, all of his tutors talk about what a great student he is! Focused, friendly, eager to learn.

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TNKR Open House on Saturday

We have had so many nice people ask how they can join the Teach North Korean Refugees (TNKR). The co-founders of TNKR will be meeting with interested volunteers who would like to find out about what we are doing and would like to brainstorm ways to get involved in non-teaching activities.

Big agenda items
* What is TNKR?
* Possible TNKR Christmas party, December 18 (save the date)
* TNKR English Speech contest, February 27, 2016
* Fundraising, marketing. social media (ongoing)

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2015-10-07 On the Ground feature on TNKR

On the Ground, A Study of International NGOs

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September 26, 2015
Teach North Korean Refugees (Seoul, South Korea)

Casey Lartigue fills the room with both his voice and his sincerity as we settle down for our interview. It is a pleasant reassurance to hear his English fill the room after navigating Korean since arriving in Seoul, South Korea—current home of Teach North Korean Refugees (TKNR), Lartigue’s brainchild.
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Casey Lartigue

“I felt like I was a freedom advocate at a cocktail party,” Lartigue, who has me swing dancing across the floor of the Bitcoin office within the first fifteen minutes of our meeting, recounts. With a background of teaching English in South Korea, the Harvard graduate remembers his introduction to the long-standing question of how to handle North Korean refugees with a half smile. On March 1st, 2012 there were nearly 30 North Korean refugees caught in China and scheduled for return. It struck a bone with him, and he began to attend rallies and protests. It was during a protest that Lartigue encountered the prominent South Korean activist Park Sun-young midway through a hunger strike. Inspired, he announced his intent to “do something to help.” In return he received a virtual pat on the head.

“It’s all about ownership on a local level”

-Casey Lartigue

Lartigue was no stranger to giving back, even to refugees, but finding the right way to make his big words a reality was a challenge. In the end the idea for TNKR didn’t come to him in a moving epiphany, rather, as many of the best ideas do, it shoved itself through the door. Lartigue had been working as the International Advisor to the Mulmangcho School, a school just south of Seoul that educates the children of North Korean refugees. Through this involvement the refugee community knew him, and over time many adults had come knocking on his door asking for English lessons. Despite his experience teaching in Korea, Lartigue does not view himself as a teacher and declined many of these requests. It wasn’t until 2013 that his unintended ego dropped out of the situation and Lartigue had a valuable realization—the refugees weren’t asking him to teach English because he was the end all be all of English teachers, they were asking because they wanted to learn English. Under the influence of this realization in March 2013, Teach North Korean Refugees was born.
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Casey Lartigue and Dylan Kolhoff

TNKR works on a monthly basis with approximately ten North Korean refugees and 15 tutors, though in the past month they have had over 29 new tutors join the program. It predominantly serves as a matching service, pairing tutors with students and vice versa. However, early on in the organization’s history the matching process led to an argument that nearly ended it then and there. After the first session at which Lartigue and co-founded Lee Eunkoo helped match tutors to students Lartigue pushed back against the structure, claiming that the refugees would benefit more from the autonomy and responsibility of choosing a teacher on their own. This idea was shot down on the basis that the refugees did not come from a background of autonomy and would not adjust to that level of autonomy well. He fought back, and two years down the line a 50-person waiting list for matching speaks loudly for the success of his model.

TNKR students can choose from one of two programs, “Finding My Own Way” or “Telling My Own Story,” both centered on the acquisition of English language. As Lartigue puts it, “the burden is on the refugees.” This burden, as he calls it, includes choosing between two to three tutors, deciding on a class schedule, choosing a location to meet, and attending at the minimum two ninety minute sessions a month. The minimum seems superfluous; on average refugees attend class nearly once a week, some traveling almost two hours on the subway over four different lines to attend. Tutors match this enthusiasm, with one even flying in once a month from Jeju Island.

The demand has quickly outpaced the supply, and as we talk in the office a class is being held with a waitlisted student in the other room. We break from the history of TNKR to observe. It is the refugee’s first class, and only the tutor’s second. The nerves show through as Lartigue helps to translate using his basic Korean, which is how we end up with the sentence “I like to dance,” and whirl across the room. The class is an example of in-house tutoring, a system created to accommodate for the increased need. Yet Lartigue cites something else entirely as TNKR’s biggest challenge.

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“It is imperative that people don’t come in passively. ‘How can I help?’ is the worst question I get asked,” Lartigue laments. It is the first time in our hour of conversation that his friendly exterior begins to show seams. “You don’t have to teach,” he says, “but consider your role! What are your strengths? Do the thing that you can do well!” TNKR needs a marketing team desperately, but could also benefit from web design, legal and business backgrounds. In fact, there are few groups that Lartigue excludes from potential volunteer categories. The ability to help is dictated by who you are, and if you’re the next Bill Gates then the best was to help is to donate. His second frustration is money, a common refrain in the NGO world.

TNKR is rapidly outgrowing their space at Bitcoin, a small but well-lit center on the third floor of a building outside the Itaewon subway station. TNKR does not accept government money, preferring to maintain freedom to adjust the goals and capacity of the organization as the needs of its constituents grow and change. However, refusing to accept government restrictions means crowdsourcing the funding for the free tutoring services that TNKR offers. Tutors all serve as unpaid volunteers, and yet there are more volunteers to teach than the center can sustain at its current level and they need new space. Space, however, requires money for rent. In a system where corruption scandals emblazon headlines, people want to be sure of where their donation money is going. Having put over $10,000 of his own into the organization, Lartigue understands this sentiment, but laments its effects. Referencing the United Way scandal, he insists that a $10,000 organization cannot be treated like a $10,000,000 dollar organization. He acknowledges that NGOs deserve some of the blame, but frets over the impact it has on donations. His advice? Donate where you understand.

We met with one of these volunteers while we waited for the English tutoring session outside to conclude. Jungming “Jenny” Lee, a South Korean student preparing for law school, works as an in-house tutor for students on the waitlist while they wait for more permanent placements. She cites the book “Nothing to Envy” by Barbara Demick as the reason she first really considered getting involved with refugees, but regrets that it took a Western catalyst to really get her involved.

“As much as I appreciated the book,” she says “it was quite sad that it from Western, a white person, and Casey is also an American. And, I know we are ‘one nation, one people,’ but a lot of South Koreans still have a lot of stereotypes to North Koreans, and I was one of them.” (ibid) TNKR has changed that perspective. As she puts it, the gap has been destroyed. Jenny recounts working with North Koreans on everything from teaching the ABCs to preparing for interviews for law school. “He’s my competition,” she jokes.
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Jungming “Jenny” Lee

As Jenny speaks of the positive influence TNKR’s “small scale unification” has had on her own perspective of North Koreans, both refugees and those still in North Korea, the class outside finishes up and we head out to meet both tutor and student. The student refugee, who went by an English name ­­, withheld her full identity, as many do. It is unsafe to be seen in pictures or named online, as many of the refugees that TNKR works with are officially considered dead in North Korea and need to stay that way for the safety of family members that remain north of the DMZ. Jenny volunteers her services as a translator.

A beautiful, well-dressed, and soft-spoken woman our student refugee looks a little nervous as being interviewed on her first day of class. We assure her that any pictures will be mosaicked. “I am studying English to be good at it,” Jenny translates. She has been interested in learning English “as far back as I can remember.” Her lessons in North Korea were very basic, and when she learned of TNKR through a friend she was excited about the opportunity to study English in a one-on-one situation. Her first class was good, and she is personally committed to learning.

“How long will you continue to attend English classes?”

“As long as I can come here.”

Her attitude highlights Lartigue’s confidence that refugees are truly ready and able to take their English education into their own hands. Her tutor, she says, was very “understanding,” a trait she says is the most important thing to find in a teacher. After a few moments talking to Bridget I must agree, she seems both capable and understanding. Though her experience teaching is limited to having taught conversational English to French speaking women, she is excited about the opportunity to volunteer in a capacity where her job is clear. It is something that comes, it seems, with the territory of a small organization run on a personal level. “Don’t wait and sit around. Come in and do work,” that’s what is important.
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It is an appropriate sentiment, one that seems to embody the past, present, and future of TNKR. Lartigue’s desire for “ownership at a local level” and desire to turn “adaptive change” into a business model show through on every level of the organization. “How can I help” is a question that he clearly came ready to answer.

(Author: Ida Knox, Editor: Dylan Kolhoff)